Spice Up Your Relationship With Sexy Games

Sexy games can bring the spice back to any relationship. Maybe you have an excellent relationship, but things have never quite sizzled in the bedroom. Whatever the reasons behind them, sexual difficulties are quite common but can cause undue friction in even the best relationship. Sexy games are an easy, quick fix for many sexual relationships that have become derailed. If your relationship is healthy overall but simply lacks a bit of spice, sexy games can turn things around nicely.

Let the Games Begin

Sexy games for couples run the gamut from simple to complex. You can purchase elaborate games with a variety of props from any sex shop or novelty store. However, some couples prefer to make up their own sexy games. You might want to begin with structured games at first, then create your own sexy games as you and your partner gain confidence.

Turn the game of truth or dare, often played at teenage slumber parties, into a fun sexy game for couples. Each of you writes down at least five dares.This game requires some thinking and planning. Start by thinking tactile. What could be used on your lover’s skin to create goose bumps? Gather items such as feathers, ice, a piece of fur, light string or rope, a length of silk, wool, and a knobby fabric. Others items to use might include a soft ball, a back scratcher, or a damp sponge.

Oral sex for women

There is no secret – women like oral sex a lot. Oral sex for women is something that can make a woman go crazy of pleasure and satisfaction. Due to some anatomic reasons tongue and mouth touching women’s genitals gives incredible feeling for her, but there are some things that partner (men) should know and pay attention to. Oral sex for women is delicate skill, which requires patience, practice and understanding how to do it right.

Everyone must find how they like things done to them, and this is a very personal thing. Every woman is different and oral sex will need to be different for them. Some woman may like additional stimulation during oral sex such as one or two fingers into her vagina, stimulate the zone at the roof of her vagina, touch breasts.

As I mentioned before every single women will be different, and before giving her satisfaction doing oral sex, man should be ready to accept her wishes otherwise doing oral sex the way man likes – may be useless for woman. Then there is no point to practice oral sex at all. The difference between normal sex and oral sex pleasure for women is that if a couple is making love in traditional way – they both feel pleasure, but during cunnilingus – woman is the main object that needs to be satisfied. That is why man has to pay all his attention to satisfy her.
Man could also use a sex toybeside fingers and tongue to give more satisfying feeling to woman. Try it today!

Pleasures of Masturbation

"A true experience of sex toy by SHYBADGIRL"

It was a hot night and I was feeling extremely horny. My guy Craig is just like me, always horny and loves masturbation as much as I do. He was at work when I decided I needed to make myself cum.

I needed the release. I laid in bed and was thinking about how much I love to have my pussy eaten as my hands wandered over my body. First my fingers teased my nipples pinching and pulling on them making them nice and hard. I sat up in the bed so I could lean down and lick my nipple and bite it softly. MMMMM it felt so good. I continued to lick my nipple as my other hand wandered down to my hot pussy. I could feel the heat from it and I hadn't even touched it yet.

I could feel the softness of my bare pussy as my finger slowly traced over the lips of my shaved pussy. The heat that was coming from my pussy made me want to cum fast. I started to touch my clit with my index finger making slow circles on it. The minute I touched it I could feel the pre-cum oozing from me.

I reached over into the drawer and pulled my toys out. I have this 7 inch anal dildo that I slid in my pussy to get it lubed up. I turned to my side and slowly slid the dildo in my tight butt hole. It felt so painfully good, made my pussy drip even more.

I was moaning with pleasure when I heard a noise. It was Craig standing in the doorway watching me. I could tell by the look on his face that he was enjoying seeing me fuck my tight ass. He walked towards the bed and removed his clothes. His cock was already hard. When his clothes were off he started stroking his cock while he watched me. I started fucking my ass harder and faster while I fingered my clit... soon I was cumming so hard. My juices oozed from my hot pussy. I looked up just in time to see Craig shooting his load of cum all over his thighs.

I got off the bed and went to him and rubbed his cum on my lips... mmmmmm he tasted so good. I continued to lick the cum from his thighs, cleaning every drop of cum from him

Craig told me that he wanted me to try something new tonight. I am always open to Craig's suggestions. They always make me cum so good. He told me to wait and left the bedroom. He came back in a few minutes with a vibrator. I gave Craig a wicked smile and was eager to find out what pleasure this would bring me. Craig told me to lay on my back on the bed and handed me the vibrator. He said, "I want to watch you devour that vibrator into your hot pussy baby." I took the vibrator and brought it up to my mouth. Taking it in my mouth and sucking on it like it was a hard cock. My hand stroking up and down the shaft of the vibrator.

While I was doing this Craig was laying on the other end of the bed with his hand wrapped around his cock stroking it like I was stroking the vibrator. I removed the that from my mouth and told Craig.... "Watch me baby, I'm going to fuck this vibe til the cum oozes from my hot pussy."

I brought the neck of the vibrator to my pussy lips. I was so wet that the tip of the that thing eased into me easily..... I could feel the lip of the vibrator inside my pussy giving me pleasure. A moan escaped my lips.... Craig said, " Come on baby fuck that vibe, slide it in your hot little pussy." As the it went deeper in my pussy, I fucked faster and harder. Craig slid closer to me and started rubbing my clit with his thumb as he stroked his cock. I reached down and started rubbing his balls. I could feel my orgasm building and could see by the look on Craig's face that he was about to cum. Faster and harder I fucked my pussy while Craig stroked his cock. I moaned and started yelling.... "Baby!!!!!!! I'm cummmmiiiiiinnnnnnnggggggg."

At that moment Craig moaned loudly and shot his cum all over my face. His hot cum was dripping down my cheek. I let the vibrator in my pussy as I leaned forward and grabbed Craig's cock and rubbed his cum off my face. I then took his cock in my mouth and sucked it clean...

I licked my lips when I was done and said.... "MMMMMM yummy baby!!!!" Craig reached down and removed the vibrator from my pussy and brought it to his lips, licking my cum from the neck. He then kissed me and we tasted the combination of our cum on each others tongue..... We fell asleep in each others arms, both totally exhausted and sexually satisfied til the next time....

Anal sex - what women dislike

There is a wide range of people who practice anal sex. The reasons why people like to practice anal sex vary greatly. Some men and women say that anal sex enables them to reach orgasm, with or without simultaneous stimulation of their genitals (penis or clitoris). Generally, for women, pleasure is derived through anal intercourse due to the shared nerve endings that are located between the rectal wall and the vagina, and/or from indirect stimulation of the G-spot. The anus contains many nerves as well, which can also react in a pleasurable manner when excited.

Actually anal sex can be even very pleasurable for women due to some biological factors – the rectum shares a membrane with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and probably more orgasmic. Many women still think that anal sex is a taboo and it’s just a thing you can see only in porn flicks. But nowadays when teenage girls become pregnant very often, when group sex is becoming more popular among everyone it’s quite evident that anything ends in the bedroom.

So here are some things that women dislike, hate even about anal sex:

1. During anal sex, female virtually hand their sexual power over to their partners. So men have the ability to prevent woman’s orgasm. Penetration usually occurs from behind: man enters her sexually when she can’t see him and women’s sexual satisfaction is in mans hands. Women are not sure what man is doing “back there” so usually they are afraid of pain and suffering.

2. Penis can cause serious damage to a woman by hurting terribly when it comes to anal aperture if men are not careful. Men need to pay serious attention to a woman’s penetration when she is not relaxed, so to be sensitive is a necessity.

3. Women hate insensitive men whose motives are selfish. So during anal sex woman make sure that her partner is smart wnough to understand some things as using Lubricant to avoid a possible pain. It might be very painful because it’s not a “juicy vagina” – in this situation men should apply a lot of Lubricant.

So there are some things that women doesn't like about anal sex and every women who never tried it should firslty remember these things and make sure to avoid pain and bad feelings.

8 Things Men Hate in Bed

We already gave you, some tips about what women hate in bed, and know it’s about time to talk about things that men hate in bed about female behavior. So, ladies, read this carefully if you don’t want to leave bad impression for a guy when you have sex with him. Of course these things might be helpful not for every single couple, because eveyone of us have different needs and requirements for sex.

1. During sex some women don't do anything – just lie down and expect to have some pleasure now. That is the worst thing you can do, men hate that. Women should move, despite man is on the top. Women, show your partners that you want to have sex with them as well as he does. If women look like “lying dead” – partner can even get sexual problems, if he cares how to give you pleasure.

2. Almost every woman would agree that she likes to be kissed. Well the same is with men. They also love when women are kissing them, all his body. That drives them crazy. If you want to satisfy your men in bed, kiss him, tease and play with him.

3. Some old fashioned women still think that man has to take all the control in bed while having sex but that is absolutely wrong. Women also have to take control in bed. Show that you want to have sex now, tell him what he has to do, because now you are the one who is dictating the rules. I can assure your man will be very excited and pleased about such an action. Sometimes they like to be controlled.

4. Be very sensitive to your partner. Women like to have sensitive man next to her, try doing the same to your man. Men’s bodies are really sensitive and women should do their best to make him feel as good as he makes her feel.

5. If you want to get pleasure, don’t forget to give it to your partner too. Men sometimes thing that their lady in bed doesn’t care at all what is he feeling, does he like her actions. Women should always remember to ask questions such as “how do you like that?”, “how does that feel?” Let him know that you care what he feels and if he likes that or not. They love to have your attention.

6. Don’t confuse your partner. Some women don’t show their emotions – that means men do not understand weather you like it or not. Don’t feel shy to scream when you feel like screaming from pleasure, breathe a bit harder. Do some noise, because it’s the best way to inform your partner about your feelings at that moment. That would help you too. Your man will know what you like best and you will be rewarded! 

7. Do you feel your sexual life is getting a bit boring? Take some action – keep it new. Don’t be shy to surprise your partner with some new sexy outfit. Wear it, dance to him and you will drive him crazy. They love little teasing with sexy clothes and get excited about upcoming sex.

8-Try some sex toys. Some men like to be touched or be played while having sex. What is a better choice than a being calm and relax while he's trying to do his best. Be an active part and be imaginative, add some spice to your sexual encounter and make it unforgettable for him.

5 Things That Women Hate in Bed

None of men could possibly be proud of being called “boring lover”, and none of the women would like spend their lives or even just one night with a “stallion” with such a reputation! Therefore, here are the things to help you with a several tips on how avoid such a “label” on your back. Here are five things that women really hate in their sex life:

Don’t be too careful

The phrases like “can I?” are NOT sexy. They just kill the mood. A good lover knows how to let the woman know their next step and how to prepare her for it with no questions asked. Sometimes it is enough just to look in “undressing” way or a provocative touch your girlfriends’ body to give a signal for sex.

Mechanical sex

Most women would agree that sex with no passion is boring, just a time spent with no particular reason. No woman wants to become an “inflatable woman” (perhaps only with a very little exception). I’m not saying that every sex you have has to be exclusively tremendous, but just don’t ignore the fact that every woman want to be a “woman” and it's always a good idea to keep that in mind. Be sensitive and sometimes not just have sex, but also “make love” to her.

Monotony

If your girlfriend or wife knows every crack in your ceiling – you are in a huge trouble. But don’t panic yet. A simple change of a place will help you out. Try doing it in your bathroom, kitchen, your car or even on a beach (of course find a place with no viewers), the possibilities are endless. Turn on your imagination.

Moaning and talking

Too loud moaning as well as too quiet is irritating for women. The silence is also not an option. You have to play careful here. Try to find the “golden middle” and to express your feelings to your girlfriend but not to all the neighbors. Try not to use all the same words during the sex as well, try to find phrases how to say how sexy she looks, how great she is in bed. you don’t have to repeat all the same three words, which we all are so afraid of.

Unwillingness to experiment

If you are in a long-term relationship, don’t be afraid to experiment. Sex life does get boring, and there is a lot you can do about it. Try different positions, role-playing give a freedom to your fantasies. Do whatever you want to if your partner agrees with it, and if it would spice up your love life.

Discuss you fantasies with your partner at the glass of a good wine, and you would be surprised how fast they can turn into reality.

These are the main guidelines how to improve your sex life. What I wanted to say here is that women do not seek Casanova in every man. They just want you to make an effort to your relationship.

Your Birth Control Options

Are you a woman who is currently unsure as to whether or not you are ready for parenthood?  If that is the case, are you currently sexually active?  If you are, are you using any form of birth control?  Parenting and pregnancy are all important issues, ones that are difficult to back down from. For that reason, if you are not looking to become a mother just yet, it is important that you take the time to familiarize yourself with all of your birth control options.

condom

Perhaps, the most popular and most well-known birth control method is that of condoms. Condoms, in most cases, are highly effective against preventing pregnancy. On rare occasions, they can break or leak, but you are typically safe.  Just be sure to purchase a brand of condoms that is known for their strength and durability.  What is nice about this popular birth control method, is that you are often not only protected against pregnancy, but sexually transmitted diseases as well.

Although condoms are an effective birth control method used by many, there are many women and men who prefer not to use them.  If you are not interested in handling the issue of the birth and upbringing of a child, it is important that you take the time to familiarize yourself with the other options that you have for birth control. A few of those other options, outlined below, are ones that may not be as well-known or as popular as condoms, but they are typically just as effective.

Birth control pills

Birth control pills are a hormonal form of birth control.  Birth control pills require the taking of a pill each and everyday of the month. Birth control pills are known as being effective, as long as they are taken as directed. As with many other medications, birth control pills are not ideal for smokers, as they may cause additional health complications.  With a large selection of birth control pills, including ones that eliminate your menstrual period, you are sure to find something that can offer you assistance.

Hormonal method

Aside from condoms and birth control, the next most popular form of birth control is another hormonal method. This birth control method is commonly referred to as the Depo shot. The Depo shot has one main downfall and that is that it has been linked to a poor absorption of calcium. That is why many Depo users are urged to take calcium supplements each day. What is nice about the Depo shot is that it is not only effective at preventing pregnancy, but it is also administered on a three-month schedule and periods are often a thing of the past.

Although not as popular as condoms, the Depo shot, and birth control pills, IUDs are also effective forms of birth control.  IUDs are known as Intra-Uterine Devices.  Intra-Uterine Devices (IUDs) come in a number of different formats, but they are still designed to protect you from pregnancy. This is either done with the use of a copper device, which is spermicidal, or ones that release progestin.  

The above mentioned birth control methods are actually just a few of the many that exist, but these birth control methods are designed to prevent pregnancy right from the start.  Should you find yourself in an emergency situation, it is important to know that you have a number of different options, including emergency contraceptives.  These emergency contraceptives can be obtained through your doctor’s office or your local pharmacy. Despite being able to offer you assistance, it is important that you do not use abortion or even emergency contraceptives as a form of birth control. If that is what you have been doing, you have a whole other set of issues that need to be dealt with.

As a reminder, the above mentioned birth control methods can all help to prevent you from becoming pregnant.  With that in mind, the only method of birth control, at this moment, that can protect you from sexually transmitted disease is that of a condom.

18 mistakes men make during sex!

1) NOT KISSING FIRST

Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the Ultimate form of foreplay.

2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR

Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.

3) NOT SHAVING

You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.

4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST

Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.

5) BITING HER NIPPLES

Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then! clamp down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a dogie toy isn't.

6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES

Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.

7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY

A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breast-ville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina.

So start paying them some attention.

8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED

Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her! to take the damn things off.

9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT

Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.

10) ATTACKING THE vagina

Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers

along side of the vagina.

11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK

Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.

12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY

Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.

13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY

Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.

14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA

Although most men can find the vagina without ma! ps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is OK in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her vagina and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.

15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY

You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are OK; elbows and knees are not.

16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY

Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a couple of buttons.

17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST

A man in socks and underpants is a at his worst. Lose the socks first.

18) GOING TOO FAST

When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool -she'll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.

Choosing the right Sex Toy

Do's and Don'ts during sex

How many of us have been in the middle of wild animalistic sex then said or did something that you would later regret?

All of us have done one thing or another that we wish we didn’t, but no matter what we do there are just some things you should stay away from.

Take note, because we have developed a list of 10 things that you must not do or say if you don’t want to get kicked to the curb.

Make sure you take the time to memorize the list because your sex life depends on it!

1. Scream Out Someone Else’s Name

This is one thing that will always ruin the mood. Sure some of us tend to think of other people while we are in the middle of sex with our partner (this happens more and more if you have been dating a girl for a long time), but verbalizing this name can be disastrous. The situation gets even worse if you scream out your ex-girlfriend’s name.

2. Comment on Her Body

Everyone is particular about their body. Men tend to look at their penis size while women look at, well, everything. Never comment on her body, her extra weight, that loose skin under her biceps, her breasts, or any other part unless it is a positive comment. If asked, it is best to say that you love her for who she is.

3. Keep the Food Away

Women like to keep things clean so don’t bring the beer, pretzels, or pizza to the bedroom unless you are going to use it for sexual foreplay. Not only do the crumbs ruin the mood, but she knows as much as you do that she will be doing the laundry in the morning.

4. Anyone for Some Porn?

Sometimes men like to put the gear from first to fourth by adding some visual effects to the mix. Many "good" girls don’t like watching porn because they find it offensive or degrading. If you are one of these unlucky men who has a partner that doesn’t like porn, don’t be discouraged. All you have to do is keep it hidden, because you can still watch it when she is gone.

5. Have you Thought of a Threesome?

Having the courage to mention the idea of a threesome can get your balls in a mess. There are three reasons why threesomes can get ugly. First of all, you have the jealousy factor. When it comes to threesomes, one woman always gets more attention that the other.

Secondly, you have the intimidation factor. Sexually inexperienced women will find the other woman intimidating and will not know how to act. Finally, you have the awkwardness factor. Many women have not been sexually intimate with another woman, so being in the same bedroom with them will make them feel awkward.

Putting all this together, the thing that will turn a woman off the most is you implying that she is boring in bed, requesting to bring someone else in.

6. Never Mention Anything about her Ability

Some of us tend not to think when we are having sex (see #1) so be fore warned that mentioning anything about her sexual ability is a definite no-no.

Sure some women are better in bed than others, but telling her that she isn’t good at oral sex will just get you less oral sex. Bite your tongue and take the time to teach her what turns you on.

7. Don’t Tell her About your Sexual Past

Here are three things that you shouldn’t do:

    - Never tell her how many girls you have slept with. A friend of mine mentioned to his girlfriend how many girls he has slept with. It turns out, he     slept close to twenty times the amount of people that she slept with. And yes she was disgusted. And guess what? They are not dating anymore.

    - Never tell her where you learned something. If you say that you learned something while you were with Alisha, she will think that whenever you     are doing this technique or position, you are thinking of Alisha.

    - Never mention the ex-girlfriend.
    Just like #1 this too can get you into a bind. Try not to say: “Jane used to do it this way, why don’t you do it this way?? Always stay away from     mentioning an ex-girlfriend.

8. Never Scare Her

9. Don’t Answer the Phone

10. Never Fall Asleep